She slipped on and fastened my high heeled pumps and told me to walk to the vanity. Assuming it’s just a kink – the guy likes to dress up in women’s clothing and it turns him on – ladies, would you be ok with that? It was clinging and tight but actually comfortable. I, however, am no longer attracted to him. (He has a … I’m not looking for anything sinister, I trust him. I find that all the panic goes away and I can think clearly. Bet you are thrilled you looked through his phone, eh? See more ideas about feminized husband, crossdressers, house husband. Ooo, silky boxer briefs! What the two of you should do now is to start talking about what has been going on. However, you should now go and see the doctor who put the device in, who will look for the threads with a special instrument and she can gently pull them down a little, into the vagina. Preelabs Limited: Translating vision to reality, A silver spoon but not a silver platter for Nicholas Kenneth Benjamin, Dear Doc | Help! Fairly common. It has incremented so much that he wears panties, bras, tops and dresses. June 19, 2014, 10:57 am. That’s your answer right there. Boxer briefs are my kryptonite. When a woman who is taking the Pill develops pain in the back of the lower part of the leg, there has to be a strong possibility that it is due to a thrombosis. That would be so hot! seriously ladies, and guys, go out and purchase a pair of saxx for one of the men in your life, they are a game changer. My husband’s to-do list for his day off included a mani/pedi and shaving his legs. So I have to say I haven’t picked up my ‘real’ camera in over a year. What if men could get silky, lacy undies made just for them? He is currently in the new Broadway play, CASA VALENTINA, in the title role.It’s Harvey Fierstein’s new play, based on a real resort up in the Catskills that existed in the early 60’s called Casa Susanna, which offered a respite for … That is one of the fairly rare side effects of the Pill, and it is very serious! More often than not these dancing dudes are broke straight college boys who make BANK. I used to think my dad eating octopus was weird. I came home unexpectedly early, and found my husband in my bedroom dressed in my clothes. My husband, the woman: The private anguish of having a spouse. Michael Warnock June 19, 2014, 10:01 am. something’s wrong and he either isn’t telling her if she’s asking or she just wanted to snoop. I think I’d be taken aback if I suddenly found out that my partner likes to wear women’s clothes… but mostly because I’d feel like he’d been keeping something from me for a number of years… and I’d feel sad that he hadn’t shared this part of himself with me. Call it what you want – I don’t care what other people do in their own bedrooms – but I’d probably freak out too if I thought MY husband was gay. What should I do? But eventually, he broke down and started sobbing. Your husband is many things (which you know and love) and now you have a bit more information about one of those many things. How many men who crossdress because they enjoy the sensation of the women’s fabrics would be all over a nice silky pair of leopard print boxer briefs with a little soft lace trim? I can imagine it being stretched out in some unlikely locations, waistbands shot etc. Sex has been very good for me since I had a coil put in six months ago. June 19, 2014, 4:33 pm. Tell him you love him and want to understand this behavior. mrmidtwenties @AP Fabello does that (dress in lingerie). Yes. LW please keep this in perspective – it is likely a harmless pleasure and quite common at that. It’s a pretty harmless kink and not even one that I’d have to actively participate in — I’d probably encourage him to get his own garments rather than borrow mine. He also needs to respectfully launder anything he has been using. Occasionally my wife buys a dress and tells me to keep away from it. So I agree that something else is fueling the feeling that he’s cheating and the original looking through his phone. She does not know this, but last year I had sex several times with an ex-girlfriend, who has now gone back to England. (I kid, I kid.) When i arrived with this my son wants to wear a dress, all focus was on me. hm good question. I was shocked and quite frightened. But my "hangup" is a very real thing. She tried several dresses on me till she found one that fitted me to her satisfaction. Experts say that quite a few men who are cross-dressers do somehow manage to keep their marriages going - provided their wives are tolerant. I’m not against the kink, but you don’t eff up someone else’s stuff. This may shock many of you, but let me explain. (except not mine… he has to get his own :p), AbbyNormal You can also follow along on Facebook and Instagram. We have three children, and until recently, I thought we had a happy life. I Tricked My Husband Into Wearing a Dress - Free download as Word Doc (.doc), PDF File (.pdf), Text File (.txt) or read online for free. Gay men are visual creatures, what can I say? Well, it is unlikely that a 27-year-old man would have a testosterone (male hormone) deficiency. He just likes the way it feels on his skin, and I can understand that.”. Should a house husband wear a dress while doing house work? So maybe it’s not “enlightened” for her to associate cross dressing with homosexuality but she just found out something completely unexpected about her husband. The immediate leap to “Eeek! My entire life, our kids’ lives, almost everything would change. June 19, 2014, 9:10 am. A member of the RJRGLEANER Communications Group. Question: I rarely take my purse with me when Mr. Grass and I go out and often he’ll run into a store to get something and I’ll wait in the car because it’s a pita to get E in and out for something quick. She’d have said that in the LW. sounds like you need to do a Reader’s Rec! Please answer seriously, because I’m curious. 6? And he’s so bad at lying, I’ve ruined many a good surprise by prying just a tiny bit…, LadyinPurpleNotRed I dress my husband as Penny for our kinky games, he likes to be a sub sissy when he is Penny Suz Totally wasn’t expecting to have that reaction, but I’ve gotten Bassanio to occasionally change his underwear habits… He hasn’t complained. When Brian and Debbie McCloskey got married two years ago, Debbie wore a lovely little neutral-colored dress. But then again, I’m bi and tend to be attracted to men with a notable feminine streak (personality and/or appearance) so maybe that why it’s kinda “meh” to me, or even potentially positive, I could see this leading to some fun role-reversal sexytimes or something. Follow along on Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram. Man, were those Go Go Boys hot, and now I know what to inquire about next time my friends are down with going to a gay club… , bittergaymark Me being me, I felt sorry for him. So my boyfriend came up to me once when I came home looking all shamefaced and goes “There’s a run in one of your black stockings.” I just figured he’d been doing laundry, until he followed up with “I may have been trying them on. AbbyNormal I used to think people who wore jeggings were weird. This does not have to be a deal breaker so don’t spiral. I like being the man of the house and am in reality. Addie Pray Cross-dressing and homosexuality — and transgender identity, for that matter — are NOT the same thing, and a man can be into wearing women’s clothes without being sexually attracted to men and without feeling like he’s a woman in a man’s body. But seriously, best boxer briefs ever, Addie Pray The wording reveals the snoop. Also, reading between the lines it kind of sounds like you want to leave your husband. If you can reserve judgment and just listen to his explanation with an open heart, hopefully your husband will trust you enough to share his feelings and you will find that this is really nothing more than a kink — and a pretty harmless one at that — and doesn’t have to have a negative effect on your marriage. I felt sick. My husband embarrased me and I got my REVENGE! Maybe its just me but I think I’d be relieved if this is what I found. He told me that all his life, he had wanted to 'dress up' in women's clothing. I think understand what exactly about it turned him on would definitely make the sex better. I wish there were more information here. Wow. Homosexuality!” wasn’t exactly a great display of modern enlightenment. I Caught My Husband Wearing Lingerie. I used to think the word “phat” was weird. He had a wife and she would come shopping with him. I think it would be normal to be a little surprised/uncertain about it at first. Probably, it has something to do with some game they played as children, dressing up in their mom's clothes. June 19, 2014, 6:36 pm. She had a male customer who always came to her to help him shop for women’s clothes in his size, because she was discreet and nonjudgmental. She needs to communicate with him. My first reaction is “I think that’s weird” which then makes me think I might not be so open-minded and understanding as I would hope. I think it would turn me off from sex with him. And we have not had sex. Maybe, maybe not, but I just know him as the kind of person who likes to try things, just to try them, so I just dismissed it. Be honest with him what you did and what you found. LadyinPurpleNotRed I’d suggest sitting your husband down and telling him what you found. muchachaenlaventana And do not take any more Pills until a thrombosis has been ruled out. A. I am very sorry to hear that you have had such an awful shock. I personally like regular white briefs because when a man is just wearing briefs – oh especially with socks – he looks so nerdy I LOVE IT. June 19, 2014, 10:36 am. One he WISELY kept from you because you are clearly a closed-minded, homophobic bigot. June 19, 2014, 10:42 am. I seems that you just can’t have it both ways at the same time. lets_be_honest But the fact that you cannot feel yours may just indicate that the threads have got 'tucked up' inside the cervix. I note that your husband has given you three children, which certainly suggests that he is likely to be heterosexual. The doctor will check it for sugar levels and see if your kidneys are okay. bittergaymark All we know is that she doesn’t want her husband to cheat on her. You should get yourself checked out by the doctor, just in case you have an infection. Then again, if he were to come up to me again and tell me it was actually a big kink of his, I think I’d just be glad he shared. Would you really end your marriage over something as harmless as this? June 19, 2014, 5:31 pm, @ap, well if you need a guy to buy things for, I’m right here , fast eddie I get that phones are most people’s regular cameras these days but I can’t help but wonder if the fact that he used his phone means he sent or plans to send the pictures to someone else. In fact, I would be entertained to go lingerie shopping with him. And if you can’t trust him to be honest, there you go. mrmidtwenties You can read about me here, peruse the archives here and read popular posts here. To all the comments above about wanting your guys to switch to boxers briefs. We don’t know that she’s a homophobic bigot. Oh believe me, Bassanio’s going to be getting an early birthday present…. And since he has a secret life going on, who knows what other secrets he has. I think I would be taken aback at first, just because that’s a big part of someone’s self to not know about. June 19, 2014, 11:48 am, I would definitely be ok with it. lets_be_honest Or maybe that would be my first reaction and then I’d become open-minded and understanding? This was about a week ago. Lovely dress fits very nicely. June 19, 2014, 9:21 am. Q. Husband’s Family: I have been with my husband for 10 years and we have a 3-year-old daughter together. How much ball room is there, mrmid? June 19, 2014, 10:16 am. A. Some decades ago I loved to put on sexy panties and even wore them under my jeans to go shopping. You don’t need to prove that your husband is a “perv” or whatever to pull the trigger on a separation. We have a daughter and my husband is a devoted father. Good ones include K-Y Jelly, Astroglide and Liquid Silk. My husband has started cross-dressing. It is kind of telling that you jump right to the possibility of ending the marriage…or thinking he may be gay or cheating on you. He explained that this was something he had been doing in secret since he was a little boy. Worst of all, it turned out that he had on my bra! I get a pretty good gut feeling when my guy is keeping something from me. I didn’t know what to do and as he hadn’t seen me. Q. I am 27 years old and I feel that my erections are not as strong as they used to be. Although in all fairness, she’s completely ignorant about anything outside of her “world”. This must have been a little difficult, to say the least. June 19, 2014, 1:44 pm. I understand feeling incredibly hurt that he has kept this from you for so long, but you have the chance to rectify that, and learn about this side of your husband. It is important not to confuse it with the activities of the dressed-up male prostitutes who frequent certain parts of the Corporate Area, and who genuinely are homosexuals. Something like “since I’ve basically already told my mother that I like sucking dick, telling someone I’m seeing that I want to be pissed on isn’t as scary.” And I imagine it goes the other way too. June 19, 2014, 10:20 am. Dear E. Jean: My husband and I waited to have sex until we were married. I don't think so. June 19, 2014, 10:41 pm, Haha pretty much anything can fit super comfortably from my understanding, if you delve further into the science, there is essentially a pouch that every thing fits into, and it kind of holds everything in place and actually keeps it separated from the legs, which is surprisingly amazing, mrmidtwenties You know, get his and hers in complimenting sets? I had the same thought as you Addie Pray. Him not telling her=still not great…but a better one–but one that needs to be dealt with on its own-snooping won’t solve that problem. Ha, yea true. My boyfriend wears the on special occasions like I do lingerie. June 19, 2014, 11:30 am, Laura Hope mrmidtwenties I feel he is not meeting me anywhere close to the middle. In fact, many male cross-dressers can have perfectly happy and healthy heterosexual relationships with women they love and are attracted to. Shoes came in the mail, usually in the form of … I walked out of the house and drove to my mother's. . I used to sell shoes to a man who loved to wear them. But they told me to 'check the threads' regularly. Do most men wear boxers? (And I’m with most others here…if I found out my husband did this, I’d mostly just feel bummed that he felt like he couldn’t tell me, unless keeping it a secret was part of the kink. And — yes — they are prone to wear boxer briefs as they are the hottest male underwear around. June 19, 2014, 10:55 am. The fact is that a small number of married men do like dressing up in women's clothing. Does that count as snooping? I briefly dated a crossdresser who was very open about it and I had no issues with it and I actually enjoyed helping him shop for clothes and makeup.
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